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Women don’t actually want to get away with everything. They test you to see where your boundaries are and whether you’ll actually stick to them.
I remember a few years ago when a boyfriend Free Sex Moive told me, after months of back and forth about being “the one,” that he actually didn’t know if we would be together forever and that he couldn’t make that promise anymore. I was tempted to get pissed off because oh my god, how could he say that to the love of his life?!? But I was so relieved that I couldn’t get mad. The truth is intimate. I felt closer to him even though it wasn’t what my brain wanted to hear. That depth of connection is what women want.
So far I’ve talked about the tough stuff, but remember that the truth isn’t always going to be about calling her out on her crap. Truth comes in many forms, including playfully teasing her to telling her in detail what you want her to do to your body tonight.
If you reveal your truth with confidence Teen Porn and self-approval, she doesn’t stand a chance of rolling her eyes at you for too long. (And by the way, if she’s constantly rolling her eyes and freaking out, dump her now and find someone who can handle hearing what you’ve got to say. Life is too short to be her doormat no matter how hot she is.)
So here’s the real punch line: the key ingredient to delivering the truth to a woman is approval. That’s self-approval for you and what you’ve got to say and it’s approval for her. How do you approve of you? Put both feet on the floor, feel your balls, and know that you’ve got feelings, boundaries, and desires and that they’re important and deserve to be spoken. How do you approve of her? Look at her with love and let her feel it. Don’t blame or judge or shame her. Do that and she won’t trust you, and if she’s smart, she’ll head for the door.
Although I’ve made this sound difficult (it is) and terrifying (it is), remember that this piece around your interactions with women is actually a game. A challenging, but rewarding, game, if you’re willing to stick it out. You’re learning as you go. Remember, if you’ve got love and approval to back you up, you can afford to take a risk in handling your wily woman. When it comes time to tell her something raw, honest, and true, take a shot. Pretty soon, you will hit the target dead on. You’ll be making her weak in the knees not from flowers and chocolate, but from being you and telling the truth. Deep down, that’s what women want more than anything.
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